If there's one thing I knew that this year has constantly pounded into my thoughts it's to never be ordinary. Don't just live for the moment that is the dumbest quote ever. Live for the future, live for your future. Living for right now only brings happiness right now. Work hard at what you do. MATTER to the world. Do you want to look back on your life when youre fifty and know you didn't affect the world at all, fifty years and you didnt become good at ANYTHING? why even be alive at that point. It's not about money, or partying, or any of that. It's about becoming something worth remembering, something sought after. Accomplish something. Anyone can party, anyone can drink, anyone can go to the club. Not anyone has the resolve to miss those nights to be somewhere progressing, learning, trying to figure out life. Working hard. See the world, I mean THE WORLD. Not vacations, actually take in culture. Struggle now, work hard now. Become something of a myth. Become something that no one else can. Otherwise why are you even alive? Your existence is pointless. I'm sorry, but if you aren't inspiring others or helping. That's why it feels good to help others and inspire, because it's real. Just something I've been thinking about. And then you can have real confidence and stand toe to toe with anyone and any situation.